The Real Problem...
Many female leaders spend months:
- Waiting for someone to notice they're ready for more
- Wondering if asking makes them look needy, ungrateful, or overstepping
- Quietly deciding it's easier to stay quiet than to have the conversation
But asking for development isn't self-promotion. It's stewardship.
When you get clear on what you want and how to ask for it well, you gain clarity on:
- How to frame the investment as wisdom, not want
- How to have the conversation without shrinking your ask or over-explaining it
- How to steward the answer well, whatever it is
This guide helps you move from waiting to be handed development, to faithfully stewarding the calling you already carry.
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What This Will Help You Do...
✔Get Clear on What You Actually Want
Define what this investment would make possible for you, your team, and your ministry - not just for you.
âś” Make Your Case with Honesty and Confidence
Use a real, word-for-word script for the actual conversation, whether it's a formal meeting or a casual conversation with your leader.
âś” Choose the Right Moment and Approach
Match your ask to how your leader actually makes decisions, so it lands well the first time.
âś” Handle Every Answer Well
Know what to do with a yes, a "let me think about it," or a genuine no, without losing momentum on your own growth.
âś” Steward the Investment, Once It's Given
Turn a yes into visible fruit, and make the next ask easier for the woman who comes after you.
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Who This is For...
This resource is designed for:
- Female leaders who want to invest in their own development but don't know how to make the ask
- Directors and staff leaders considering Closing the Leadership Gap or another investment in their growth
- Leaders whose churches don't have a track record of funding women's leadership development
- Anyone who's rehearsed this conversation in their head for months and never found the right words
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